Emese Toth – Psychology – Level 2
UMass Amherst, USA
Spending a year abroad had always been a dream of mine, and I knew I wanted to study abroad at least once before completing my psychology degree. Due to required modules in my later years at QMU, the only feasible time was during my second year – which meant preparing everything in my first. The journey truly began after winter break when I emailed QMU’s Study Abroad office. After much research, discussions, and planning, I decided on the University of Massachusetts Amherst (UMass), which matched my modules well. Initially, I applied for just one semester, but when the opportunity to stay for the full academic year came up, I didn’t hesitate – I went for it.
The application process was intense. Matching modules and applying for the U.S. visa were particularly challenging. Thankfully, Laura Stevenson was incredibly supportive, helping me through every step. I was equally excited and nervous. The idea of living in the U.S. for a full year felt like something out of a movie – which, ironically, is exactly how I imagined the U.S. to be, based on all the Hollywood films I’d grown up watching. Packing was its own challenge: I didn’t want to overpack, but I also didn’t want to end up underprepared.
First Impressions
I flew into New York first, spent a few days there, and then made my way to Boston and eventually to Amherst. UMass is massive – the campus feels like a small town, with everything a student might need, from dining halls and cafés to a campus pond and sports fields. It takes about 45 minutes to walk from one end to the other! At first, the size and speed of everything felt overwhelming, but the friendly environment made it easier to adjust.
The international orientation helped ease my nerves. The events were well-organized and a great way to meet other exchange students. That’s actually how I met my now-close friends. During those first few weeks, the excitement took over, and I forgot how nervous I had been.
Accommodation and Campus Life
I stayed in on-campus housing, which was recommended for exchange students. UMass has several residential areas with different atmospheres – from quiet spaces to more social ones. I experienced both a shared dorm and a suite-style room with 6–8 others. Personally, I preferred the suite-style – it gave me some privacy but also a great chance to bond with others.
The rooms were small, especially when shared, and the kitchen facilities were limited. All students living on campus were required to buy a meal plan, which turned out to be very helpful, especially considering how little access we had to cooking facilities.
Campus life at UMass is vibrant. Sports culture is huge, and I was honestly surprised by how passionate students were about their teams. The university offers countless student organizations and events, from fun and social to more wellness-focused activities. The surrounding town of Amherst has a cozy student-town feel with cafés, restaurants, bookstores, and even some local history – it’s the hometown of poet Emily Dickinson.
Studying at UMass
Academically, the structure and expectations were quite different from QMU. Classes were a bit shorter but occurred more frequently – usually twice a week. The workload was significantly heavier: there were assignments, homework, quizzes, and exams almost every other week, with midterms and finals in between. I had to stay on top of everything, which taught me a lot about time management.
I often did homework between classes and created study schedules during exam weeks. Whenever I had trips planned, I studied in advance so I wouldn’t fall behind. I also made use of the academic support available – including writing help at the library and professor office hours, which were strongly encouraged.
The grading system was also different. A passing grade started at 60% (C/D+), and the scale went all the way up to A+. It was an adjustment, but the teaching style felt familiar: lectures, class discussions, and engaged professors.
Culture, Food, and Friendships
The cultural differences were noticeable but exciting. In the beginning, I relied heavily on the events hosted by the International Exchange Program to meet people. As someone a bit more introverted, I’m grateful for those initial opportunities. Living with roommates and participating in group projects also helped me form friendships.
Campus food pleasantly surprised me. UMass has four large dining halls with daily changing menus, offering everything from U.S. classics to Asian, Indian, and European dishes. There were also cafés and grab-and-go stations around campus, which were perfect for busy days.
The American lifestyle took a bit of getting used to, but I came to love it. Everything felt bigger – from the portion sizes to the distances – but there was also a strong sense of community, especially among students.
Exploring the U.S.
One of the biggest highlights of my exchange year was the chance to travel. Amherst is well-located — just a two-hour drive from Boston and about four hours from New York City. I visited both cities, as well as Providence, Rhode Island. I also went on bigger trips to Washington D.C, Puerto Rico, Las Vegas (including a Grand Canyon tour), and even Montréal in Canada.
Most of my travel was with friends, which helped lower the costs. One friend had a car, which made everything easier and more flexible. We shared expenses and had unforgettable adventures together.
Funding and Financial Planning
Living in the U.S. was more expensive than at home, so budgeting was essential. I was fortunate to receive support from the Lisa Persdotter Simonyi Fund and the Santander Fund, which helped cover most of the accommodation, insurance, and my meal plan. Without this support, the year would have been financially much more challenging. The meal plan helped save on food costs, and travelling with friends kept trips affordable.
Weather and Seasons
Amherst has four distinct seasons. Summer was hot and humid, fall was warm and dry with stunning foliage, winter was brutally cold and spring was chilly and rainy. It was fascinating to experience the full range of American seasons – something I’m glad I got to see.
Final Thoughts
This year abroad was truly life-changing. I gained confidence, independence, and friendships that will last a lifetime. I pushed myself outside my comfort zone, travelled more than I ever imagined, and learned to balance academics, social life, and personal growth.
To any student thinking about studying abroad: just do it. You will never regret taking that leap. The challenges are real, but so are the rewards.
UMass gave me more than memories — it gave me a second home.
Dreams do come true — this year proved it to me. I got to visit places I had only dreamed of, made lifelong friends, and gained confidence in myself. I will carry these memories forever and am deeply grateful for everyone who supported me throughout this incredible experience.
I’m especially thankful to Laura Stevenson, the International Office, and the Lisa Persdotter Simonyi and Santander funds for making this possible. Without your support, none of this would have happened.
